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In my lifetime I have met many people of whom I have called friends at one time or another. But what really makes a friend. Is it spending time in the mail, talking on the phone, chatting on yahoo or laughing with one another? Many people have lowered their standards of friendship to this level. No names will be included, but needless to say the list could be endless.

Yet what should a friend really be to gain such an honored, or what should be an honored title as a Friend. Should a friend be judged on looks such as a certain height, weight, or shape? Or what about age, should a friend be older or younger, let’s not forget their job right. I mean a friend has to be rich right? NO!!!!! All of these qualities should be meaningless. Yet some people just can't get over those pointless things about a person. A friend, in my view, should be judged according to their personality. How they act towards you and others.

A friend should be compassionate and understanding. They should be kind and supportive. They should be there when you need them most, and they should always be looking out for you, before themselves. If friendship were to be raised to such a high pedestal, how many could one really call "Friends?" Two or even three on a rare occasion. Friendship is a word that has been abused and destroyed. It is very rare that someone would put this meaning to friendship. Yet everyone should just try it once and see who their friends truly are, and who they have wasted the term on. The dictionary at least states it well: "Person attached to another by personal regard for the well being of one another." Should this relative term friend ever be used in the manner it was originally intended?

There is a difference between being an acquaintance and being a friend. First, an acquaintance is someone whose name you know, who you see every now and then, who you probably have something in common with and who you feel comfortable around. It's a person what you can invite into your home and share things with. But they are people who you wouldn't share your life with, whose actions sometimes you don't understand because you don't know enough about them.

On the other hand, a friend is someone you love. Not that you are "in love" with them, but you care about them and you think about them when they are not there. The people you are reminded of when you see something they might like, and you know this because you know them so well. They are the people whose pictures you have and whose faces are in your head regardless. They are the people you see in your mind when you hear a song on the radio because they made you go up to the person they like and ask them to dance with them, or maybe YOU danced with them, maybe they stepped on your toes, or just put their head on your shoulder. They are the people you feel safe around because you know they care about you. They call just to see how you are doing, because a friend doesn't need an excuse. They tell you the truth, the first time, and you do the same. And you avoided telling me the truth.

You know that if you have a problem, they are there to listen. They are the people who won't laugh at you or hurt you. And if they do hurt you they try hard to make it up to you. They are the people you love, regardless of whether you realize it.

They are the people you cried with al your problems and bad times. They are the people that when you hug them, you don't think about how long to hug and who's going to be the first one to let go. Maybe they are the people that hold the rings at your wedding, or maybe they are the people that give you away at your wedding or maybe they are the people you marry. They are certainly the people that cry at your wedding because they are happy or because they are proud or because they are so in love. They are the people who stop you from making mistakes and help you when you do.

They are the people whose hand you can hold, or you can hug or give them a kiss and not have it be awkward because they understand the things you do and they love you for them.

They stick with you and stand by you. They hold your hand. They watch you live and you watch them live and you learn from them.

Your life is not the same without them.These are your friends."The most beautiful discovery that true friends can make is that they can grow separately without growing apart."

Regds Prady